The Missing Middle: How Neo-Tribes Are Reviving the Forgotten Architecture of Belonging

It is curious how often the collapse of everyday association precedes the hunger for belonging so sharp it can only be joked about as a cultâhistory, it seems, cycles not in events, but in silences we eventually try to fill.
Long before blockchain or pop-up villages, a French observer named Alexis de Tocqueville rode horseback through 1830s America and noticed something strange: democracy worked not because of constitutions or elections, but because every town had its associationsâreading groups, fire brigades, church committeesâwhere ordinary men practiced freedom in miniature. He called them âthe schoolhouse of democracy.â A century later, those very institutions began to vanish, replaced by mass media, centralized bureaucracy, and suburban isolation. Robert Nisbet sounded the alarm in *The Quest for Community*, showing how their collapse made people easy prey for totalitarian ideologies. Now, in the digital age, weâre witnessing a second unraveling: social media promised connection but delivered atomization. Enter the neo-tribeâa conscious resurrection of Tocquevilleâs missing schools, built not around religion or geography but shared purpose, ritual, and economic skin in the game. Unlike the communes of the 1970s, which often failed due to lack of sustainability or clarity, todayâs experiments are learning from history. Theyâre temporary by design, culturally generative, and execution-focusedâpop-up prototypes for a society that remembers how to belong. This isnât nostalgia; itâs evolution. The future of civil society may not be in legislatures or nonprofits, but in two-week popups where people rediscover what it means to build something together.
And the most telling sign that this pattern is real? The jokes. When someone replies, âI know just the perfect cult for this,â theyâre not mockingâtheyâre revealing how starved we are for real community that we can only imagine it as a cult. Thatâs not cynicism. Thatâs a cry for belonging.
âDr. Octavia Blythe
Dispatch from The Confluence E3
Published December 18, 2025